ok so about a year ago wen i first got my lx coupe the transmission had a major problem. basically it wouldnt go into second at all it would just grind out. i went to honda and had it fixed. however, they threatened that next time a similar problem would not be fixed under warranty because they brought in a specialist that determined it was from "abuse". i can understand how i could have abused it, i was new at driving stick and was very excited with the car, i did a lot of quick shifting and of course i mishifted many times due to my inexperience. since it was fixed i could probably count my mishifts on one hand in over a year. i admit i do a lot of quick shifting and when winter rolls around of course i do some donuts. beyond that i dont abuse the car. now to the problem. about 3 weeks ago my transmission started making really annoying scratching kind of noises only when i am in gear. even at idle. once i hit the clutch the noise goes away. so i took it to honda and theyh had their techs look at it a few days ago. well theyre calling abuse again and of course they dont want to fix it under warrtanty. i know i havnt abused the car as much as they are saying i have. they are pretty much claiming that i have been drag racing over a long period of time. they are saying my brakes, tires, and of course transmission among a few minor things need work and that none of it is coverd. any advice? i certainly cannot afford all of this out of pocket.