Your feeling what a more raw car can deliver. I don't know which model you have, but my SI feels more raw and connected to me than a brand new car. The 8th SI is the last true SI. It's not as limited and computer controlled as newer cars. That's what your feeling. I had a 96 Integra RS and it felt very raw, almost like a gokart. When I turn off VSA on the 8th SI it has a similar soul... I highly doubt the new civic feels like a true honda. The 8th gen SI truly is the last Integra, it replaced the RSX essentially and I feel like both cars have the same purpose. A practical but fun car... not a powerful car, but it's a Honda. So you get a good handling car. I think people are forgetting how good of handling these cars are. My 8th SI kept up with a brand new STI in the corners... albeit I have coil overs and good tires. Of course he demolished me in the straights. It's a drivers car to sum it up, that's that "ghost."