Suggestions for places to meet women for serious relationships

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 06:40 PM

Let me start by telling you guys a little bit about myself and my dilemma. I graduated from college almost a year ago. Since then I've been working at a Fortune 500 company. Most of my coworkers are old enough to retire. In fact, most of the employees at my company are baby boomers. Anyways back to the main topic. It's almost impossible for me to meet women my age (early 20s) at work. I go to the bars/clubs with my buddies from college once a week. It's always the same ol. We see the same crowd every week. The girls are alright, but I would like to meet girls out of the club/bar scene. I've dated women that I met from the bars/clubs, and it just don't seem to work. Therefore I don't think clubs/bars are the best place to meet women for serious relationships IMO... at least in my case. I could be wrong though. I just miss those college days when it use to be so easy to approach women (usually in class). What do you guys suggest?

cR4$h · 05-31-2007, 06:50 PM

myspace.

jk.

lol...I dunno. Pretty much, you can't look for something. Just hang out and have fun, eventually you will meet someone worth talking to.

cR4$h · 05-31-2007, 06:51 PM

and I know that you've probably heard that before, but its the truth. Every serious relationship I've ever had happened when I wasn't looking, and when I was looking, I ended up getting a bunch of retards.

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cR4$h

and I know that you've probably heard that before, but its the truth. Every serious relationship I've ever had happened when I wasn't looking, and when I was looking, I ended up getting a bunch of retards.

haha yeah I've heard that over a million times! I know it's true too, because that happened to me.

Whether I'm looking or not, I just want to know what would be a good place for people like me to meet women.. since I don't go to school anymore.

Mitch · 05-31-2007, 06:57 PM

Wait for it... if you are an active believer of a specific religion, try finding a girl at a building of congregation for that specific religion. E.g. Church.

The reason this is a good idea (if you actually are an active believer of that religion) is that you know going in the door that you and every girl in that building have some major things in common. Fundamental values, priorities, etc. My current girlfriend and I met at Church. We went to the same Church for three years. I went of to college, but when I was back in town after finals last summer, we started getting interested in each other. We've been dating for a year now. Things were a little slow at first (compared to some relationships) but I'd have to say this is the most stable and rewarding relationship I've ever been in.

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 07:02 PM

Nice! I'm Christian, but I don't go to church. I'm just lazy. Thanks for the advice though. Any other suggestions?

tukai · 05-31-2007, 07:20 PM

Church or strip clubs. They both have the biggest freaks. I met my wife on a blind date. Try a friend who knows a friend to set you up.

Bubble Gum Jr. · 05-31-2007, 07:24 PM

www.craigslist.com

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 07:24 PM

hahahahaha no craigslist or myspace!!

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tukai

Church or strip clubs. They both have the biggest freaks. I met my wife on a blind date. Try a friend who knows a friend to set you up.

My buddy's gf set me up with a crazy beeeatch a long time ago for a double date. That was all bad.

tukai · 05-31-2007, 07:31 PM

Try not to let 1 bad apple spoil the bunch. I met my wife a week after I turned 19 and it's worked out 11 1/2 years later

Kurt · 05-31-2007, 08:06 PM

It'll just happen.

Go to a grocery store, there are always cute chicks there. Strike up a conversation about ANYTHING

abs0lutexer0 · 05-31-2007, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kurt

It'll just happen.

Go to a grocery store, there are always cute chicks there. Strike up a conversation about ANYTHING

Anything..... I guess.... "How about those tacos?" "Nice watermelons."

Kurt · 05-31-2007, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abs0lutexer0

Anything..... I guess.... "How about those tacos?" "Nice watermelons."

Hahaha yeah dude, just say something funny and they'll be all over you

kellz si · 05-31-2007, 08:38 PM

where are you from???

Kurt · 05-31-2007, 08:40 PM

kellz is interested ^^

phenominalee · 05-31-2007, 08:55 PM

I 2nd church. Or take some night classes @ a local community college...

T.

***07mugencivic*** · 05-31-2007, 08:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cR4$h

myspace.

jk.

lol...I dunno. Pretty much, you can't look for something. Just hang out and have fun, eventually you will meet someone worth talking to.

thats great...dont meet girls on myspace..i did once....she was a slut...if you want a quick lay....get some Myspace Freaks

***KB1IOQ*** · 05-31-2007, 09:02 PM

I dunno, I'm 20 years old and two years ago I met the girl of my dreams in the weirdest possible way. I was her brother's roomate freshman year in college. Yup, it made for a very weird year with her sleeping over and stuff. But she was the older one of the two and she was happy and her brother was cool about it.

Her and I have been together for almost two years now, and we are engaged to be married when I graduate next year. I am a strong believer that when you meet the right person it just happens. You need to have an open attitude and want to talk to more than have sex with a girl. When you find a girl that you like a lot and want to spend more time with and get to know, take things slow and see where it goes. Don't push things too fast because many women get nervous from that.

I could talk for hours on this, probably because I'm so happy to be with Cait and that Euphoria just carries to everything. I wish everyone could have what I have.

Kurt · 05-31-2007, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KB1IOQ

I dunno, I'm 20 years old and two years ago I met the girl of my dreams in the weirdest possible way. I was her brother's roomate freshman year in college. Yup, it made for a very weird year with her sleeping over and stuff. But she was the older one of the two and she was happy and her brother was cool about it.

Her and I have been together for almost two years now, and we are engaged to be married when I graduate next year. I am a strong believer that when you meet the right person it just happens. You need to have an open attitude and want to talk to more than have sex with a girl. When you find a girl that you like a lot and want to spend more time with and get to know, take things slow and see where it goes. Don't push things too fast because many women get nervous from that.

I could talk for hours on this, probably because I'm so happy to be with Cait and that Euphoria just carries to everything. I wish everyone could have what I have.

*Tear down cheek*

05-31-2007, 06:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
abs0lutexer0 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Bay Area, CA Posts: 1,412 iTrader: 7 / 100%	Suggestions for places to meet women for serious relationships Let me start by telling you guys a little bit about myself and my dilemma. I graduated from college almost a year ago. Since then I've been working at a Fortune 500 company. Most of my coworkers are old enough to retire. In fact, most of the employees at my company are baby boomers. Anyways back to the main topic. It's almost impossible for me to meet women my age (early 20s) at work. I go to the bars/clubs with my buddies from college once a week. It's always the same ol. We see the same crowd every week. The girls are alright, but I would like to meet girls out of the club/bar scene. I've dated women that I met from the bars/clubs, and it just don't seem to work. Therefore I don't think clubs/bars are the best place to meet women for serious relationships IMO... at least in my case. I could be wrong though. I just miss those college days when it use to be so easy to approach women (usually in class). What do you guys suggest?

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cR4$h Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Enid/Drummond, OK Age: 21 Posts: 10,617 ..Resident Drunk..(girl).. iTrader: 0 / 0%	myspace. jk. lol...I dunno. Pretty much, you can't look for something. Just hang out and have fun, eventually you will meet someone worth talking to.

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cR4$h Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Enid/Drummond, OK Age: 21 Posts: 10,617 ..Resident Drunk..(girl).. iTrader: 0 / 0%	and I know that you've probably heard that before, but its the truth. Every serious relationship I've ever had happened when I wasn't looking, and when I was looking, I ended up getting a bunch of retards.

05-31-2007, 06:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
Mitch Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Starkville, MS; Birmingham, Al Posts: 1,261 Mitch Wall iTrader: 0 / 0%	Wait for it... if you are an active believer of a specific religion, try finding a girl at a building of congregation for that specific religion. E.g. Church. The reason this is a good idea (if you actually are an active believer of that religion) is that you know going in the door that you and every girl in that building have some major things in common. Fundamental values, priorities, etc. My current girlfriend and I met at Church. We went to the same Church for three years. I went of to college, but when I was back in town after finals last summer, we started getting interested in each other. We've been dating for a year now. Things were a little slow at first (compared to some relationships) but I'd have to say this is the most stable and rewarding relationship I've ever been in.

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abs0lutexer0 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Bay Area, CA Posts: 1,412 iTrader: 7 / 100%	Nice! I'm Christian, but I don't go to church. I'm just lazy. Thanks for the advice though. Any other suggestions?

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tukai Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Str8 90210 gangsta! Age: 31 Posts: 1,729 tukai iTrader: 1 / 100%	Church or strip clubs. They both have the biggest freaks. I met my wife on a blind date. Try a friend who knows a friend to set you up.

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Bubble Gum Jr. Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: San Jose, California Age: 26 Posts: 1,829 Dave iTrader: 0 / 0%	www.craigslist.com

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abs0lutexer0 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Bay Area, CA Posts: 1,412 iTrader: 7 / 100%	hahahahaha no craigslist or myspace!!

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tukai Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Str8 90210 gangsta! Age: 31 Posts: 1,729 tukai iTrader: 1 / 100%	Try not to let 1 bad apple spoil the bunch. I met my wife a week after I turned 19 and it's worked out 11 1/2 years later

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Kurt Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Age: 22 Posts: 4,226 iTrader: 2 / 100%	It'll just happen. Go to a grocery store, there are always cute chicks there. Strike up a conversation about ANYTHING

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kellz si Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: richmond Age: 23 Posts: 380 kelly iTrader: 0 / 0%	where are you from???

05-31-2007, 08:40 PM	#16 (permalink)
Kurt Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Age: 22 Posts: 4,226 iTrader: 2 / 100%	kellz is interested ^^

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phenominalee Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Rancho Cucamonga Ca Posts: 130 iTrader: 0 / 0%	I 2nd church. Or take some night classes @ a local community college... T.

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*KB1IOQ* VIP Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 243 iTrader: 0 / 0%	I dunno, I'm 20 years old and two years ago I met the girl of my dreams in the weirdest possible way. I was her brother's roomate freshman year in college. Yup, it made for a very weird year with her sleeping over and stuff. But she was the older one of the two and she was happy and her brother was cool about it. Her and I have been together for almost two years now, and we are engaged to be married when I graduate next year. I am a strong believer that when you meet the right person it just happens. You need to have an open attitude and want to talk to more than have sex with a girl. When you find a girl that you like a lot and want to spend more time with and get to know, take things slow and see where it goes. Don't push things too fast because many women get nervous from that. I could talk for hours on this, probably because I'm so happy to be with Cait and that Euphoria just carries to everything. I wish everyone could have what I have.