[Vent] damn i hate people![/vent]

Skyline4life · 05-27-2007, 07:31 PM

I'm just venting here cause no one eles is online and just gotta say something..Hell maybe some one can give advice haha..

So i don't ******* get it with girls. I'm always the nice guy i'm always there for people. If you need advice i'll help you out..and seems like everyone dose..but In pretty much ALL my relationships i get treated like SHIT! even sometimes the girl dosnt even know it, even when we break up i get treated like shit..My X-gf who i still talk to because We both care for each other well i care about her, not sure if she still cares about me..I'm always there for her..I always help her, but then i get back the "Everything you do just annyos me! Just pisses me off!" Why the **** do i always get to be the nice guy and i get turned around and treated like shit?!

****! Why me?! I do NO one harm. But yet I get all the shit. My one friend I help her with all her bf shit, and we started talking about this and she said to me "you know your the Nicest person i know..but I don't get what people see in you to treat you badly.." and after she said that i just stated thinking..about this, and really noticed it..

damn it. I'm done. I can care less if know on posts in this..I just had to vent.

bah, i think i may go clean my car now. and get my mind off this shit, and get pissed at cleaning my windows.

Si_Chick · 05-27-2007, 07:34 PM

Hard to say why people treat you like "shit" without knowing every detail.
Maybe some of those girls find your "niceness" a little too much, but I can't say.
You've got the right idea, **** what other people think, just be yourself and if they don't appreciate it, **** them

execlusive05 · 05-27-2007, 07:34 PM

lol maybe girls just dont like you, it sucks for you

Skylinegtr06 · 05-27-2007, 07:36 PM

stop being so nice, restore pimp-status

execlusive05 · 05-27-2007, 07:38 PM

^ yup yup.. being too nice is something a lot of girls dont like, sometimes u gotta mess around and be tough and have fun and stuff like that, but i dont know how you are so i cant say ne thing

Skyline4life · 05-27-2007, 07:45 PM

I'm not saying I'm always nice like theres no care in the world..I get mad..But i'm one of those people that don't show it..I'll keep it to my self.

But you know what, I got 1 more year left of high school. **** everything see what ever i get. Shit maybe just hook ups i don't care.

Skyline4life · 05-27-2007, 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Si_Chick

Hard to say why people treat you like "shit" without knowing every detail.
Maybe some of those girls find your "niceness" a little too much, but I can't say.
You've got the right idea, **** what other people think, just be yourself and if they don't appreciate it, **** them

but even if it wasnt me being nice..Its just no matter what I get treated like shit..

Like my x-gf..even when were not dateing, and shes out with firneds i get treated like shit..Like if i say something she'll make fun of me or something..or just give me the 'tude..even if SHE calls ME and asks me when ima be home and i say around 11 she'll say out loud in front of her friends "aww evan has to be home at 11 because its his bed time aww." and shit like that is what i get all the time..or get shit cause i got held back in 1st grade..I mean c'mon.

Nighthawk07 · 05-27-2007, 07:58 PM

I love high school drama.

Not really though, just keep doing what you're doing bro. Don't worry about what other people think. I'm one of those so called "nice guys" too, and when girls stop and realize it, she'll really appreciate you. Just gotta find one of those girls that dont' go for the assholes.

adoBoy619 · 05-27-2007, 08:39 PM

f**k it...next time a girl talks trash about you, cuss her ass out...thats what ive done before...i called this one girl a "dumb ass, B*tch ass, trick"...she couldnt say shit...gotta be on your toes and talk trash right back. F**k the kindness sometimes. people that deserve your respect are the only ones that should get it

06BlackSi · 05-27-2007, 09:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Skyline4life

I'm not saying I'm always nice like theres no care in the world..I get mad..But i'm one of those people that don't show it..I'll keep it to my self.

But you know what, I got 1 more year left of high school. **** everything see what ever i get. Shit maybe just hook ups i don't care.

who would've thought you would have girl problems in...high school...

adoBoy619 · 05-27-2007, 09:19 PM

oh yeah...btw..the girl i cussed out...im tryna beat it now.

Skyline4life · 05-27-2007, 09:39 PM

idk, Just this whole day has been shit..I come in the house today with my mom crying..I'm thinking that something happened to one of the grandparents..But she goes up stairs and my dad looks at me and i knew it was my fault..cause me and my brother don't 'treat her well' when we listen to what ever she says..yes we get into arguments..but it ****** hit me that she was crying because of what pretty much i do..

***AbsoluteGG*** · 05-27-2007, 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adoBoy619

f**k it...next time a girl talks trash about you, cuss her ass out...thats what ive done before...i called this one girl a "dumb ass, B*tch ass, trick"...she couldnt say shit...gotta be on your toes and talk trash right back. F**k the kindness sometimes. people that deserve your respect are the only ones that should get it

rofl i love this post. seriously thats what u have to do or else they will just walk all over you.

Skyline4life · 05-27-2007, 09:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AbsoluteGG

rofl i love this post. seriously thats what u have to do or else they will just walk all over you.

thats true..and so far iv shut a few people out of my life who i thought was my friends..But now they can all kiss my knees :P

***Fully Flared*** · 05-27-2007, 09:57 PM

I hate sounding like some male chauvinist, but... for most females... if you don't exercise the "I'm the pants in this relationship" mentality early on, said female will walk ALL OVER YOU. Sad it is that way, but when they know they can do whatever they want and know you won't get pissed, they will. Works both ways, but I see it happen all the time to "nice" guys. I'm a nice guy too... I hate jerks... but there IS such a thing as too nice. Fine line. Very, very fine line. lol. Confidence goes a LONG way too. My .02 :)

jballer187 · 05-27-2007, 10:22 PM

dude.....lol....maybe youre just attracted to the wrong type of girls. Try someone different, but also remember these girls you talk about are probably your age (17-18?) most girls that age are looking for someone with some sort of status. Change it up a bit.

Driving91LX · 05-27-2007, 10:41 PM

Highschool is, has been, and always will be an awkward place for relationships. I didn't know what the hell to do back then because everything was new.
If you're a nice guy then surely there's a nice girl for you there. Don't even think about long relationships and have fun.
This next year will go by fast and you'll be off to college (hopefully). Good luck, buddy.

2000civic · 05-27-2007, 11:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fully Flared

I hate sounding like some male chauvinist, but... for most females... if you don't exercise the "I'm the pants in this relationship" mentality early on, said female will walk ALL OVER YOU. Sad it is that way, but when they know they can do whatever they want and know you won't get pissed, they will. Works both ways, but I see it happen all the time to "nice" guys. I'm a nice guy too... I hate jerks... but there IS such a thing as too nice. Fine line. Very, very fine line. lol. Confidence goes a LONG way too. My .02 :)

Truth. I learned that a long time ago. Dont be nice to people just to be nice, thinking they will like you for that. Just be yourself, especially with girls, you got to show them whats up, otherwise your gonna get

trickyazn · 05-27-2007, 11:08 PM

some guys just arnt ment to have girls.

sorry your one of them.

friends only ftl.

**Silver8th** · 05-27-2007, 11:10 PM

Maybe because you have a bad attitude, a dirty mouth and you can't spell.

05-27-2007, 07:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
Skyline4life Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Mundelein, IL Age: 19 Posts: 2,966 Evan iTrader: 0 / 0%	[Vent] damn i hate people![/vent] I'm just venting here cause no one eles is online and just gotta say something..Hell maybe some one can give advice haha.. So i don't ***** get it with girls. I'm always the nice guy i'm always there for people. If you need advice i'll help you out..and seems like everyone dose..but In pretty much ALL my relationships i get treated like SHIT! even sometimes the girl dosnt even know it, even when we break up i get treated like shit..My X-gf who i still talk to because We both care for each other well i care about her, not sure if she still cares about me..I'm always there for her..I always help her, but then i get back the "Everything you do just annyos me! Just pisses me off!" Why the do i always get to be the nice guy and i get turned around and treated like shit?! **! Why me?! I do NO one harm. But yet I get all the shit. My one friend I help her with all her bf shit, and we started talking about this and she said to me "you know your the Nicest person i know..but I don't get what people see in you to treat you badly.." and after she said that i just stated thinking..about this, and really noticed it.. damn it. I'm done. I can care less if know on posts in this..I just had to vent. bah, i think i may go clean my car now. and get my mind off this shit, and get pissed at cleaning my windows.

05-27-2007, 09:57 PM	#15 (permalink)
*Fully Flared* Ijuswannachill Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: The Woodlands, TX Age: 17 Posts: 2,026 iTrader: 3 / 100%	I hate sounding like some male chauvinist, but... for most females... if you don't exercise the "I'm the pants in this relationship" mentality early on, said female will walk ALL OVER YOU. Sad it is that way, but when they know they can do whatever they want and know you won't get pissed, they will. Works both ways, but I see it happen all the time to "nice" guys. I'm a nice guy too... I hate jerks... but there IS such a thing as too nice. Fine line. Very, very fine line. lol. Confidence goes a LONG way too. My .02 :) __________________ 2007 Galaxy "Greige" LX Coupe FOR SALE : Rockford Fosgate P 200-2 AMP for $150 SHIPPED

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05-27-2007, 07:34 PM	#2 (permalink)
Si_Chick Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ottawa Age: 23 Posts: 2,582 E-bitch iTrader: 0 / 0%	Hard to say why people treat you like "shit" without knowing every detail. Maybe some of those girls find your "niceness" a little too much, but I can't say. You've got the right idea, ** what other people think, just be yourself and if they don't appreciate it, ** them

05-27-2007, 07:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
execlusive05 Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 75 iTrader: 0 / 0%	lol maybe girls just dont like you, it sucks for you

05-27-2007, 07:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
Skylinegtr06 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Chula Vista SD Age: 18 Posts: 5,745 edwyn(male) iTrader: 1 / 100%	stop being so nice, restore pimp-status

05-27-2007, 07:38 PM	#5 (permalink)
execlusive05 Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 75 iTrader: 0 / 0%	^ yup yup.. being too nice is something a lot of girls dont like, sometimes u gotta mess around and be tough and have fun and stuff like that, but i dont know how you are so i cant say ne thing

05-27-2007, 07:45 PM	#6 (permalink)
Skyline4life Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Mundelein, IL Age: 19 Posts: 2,966 Evan iTrader: 0 / 0%	I'm not saying I'm always nice like theres no care in the world..I get mad..But i'm one of those people that don't show it..I'll keep it to my self. But you know what, I got 1 more year left of high school. **** everything see what ever i get. Shit maybe just hook ups i don't care.

05-27-2007, 07:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
Nighthawk07 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Rockledge, Florida Age: 21 Posts: 5,733 Mikey iTrader: 4 / 100%	I love high school drama. Not really though, just keep doing what you're doing bro. Don't worry about what other people think. I'm one of those so called "nice guys" too, and when girls stop and realize it, she'll really appreciate you. Just gotta find one of those girls that dont' go for the assholes.

05-27-2007, 08:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
adoBoy619 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Virignia Beach/ San Diego Age: 24 Posts: 328 Jeff iTrader: 0 / 0%	f*k it...next time a girl talks trash about you, cuss her ass out...thats what ive done before...i called this one girl a "dumb ass, Btch ass, trick"...she couldnt say shit...gotta be on your toes and talk trash right back. F**k the kindness sometimes. people that deserve your respect are the only ones that should get it

05-27-2007, 09:19 PM	#11 (permalink)
adoBoy619 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Virignia Beach/ San Diego Age: 24 Posts: 328 Jeff iTrader: 0 / 0%	oh yeah...btw..the girl i cussed out...im tryna beat it now.

05-27-2007, 09:39 PM	#12 (permalink)
Skyline4life Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Mundelein, IL Age: 19 Posts: 2,966 Evan iTrader: 0 / 0%	idk, Just this whole day has been shit..I come in the house today with my mom crying..I'm thinking that something happened to one of the grandparents..But she goes up stairs and my dad looks at me and i knew it was my fault..cause me and my brother don't 'treat her well' when we listen to what ever she says..yes we get into arguments..but it ****** hit me that she was crying because of what pretty much i do..

05-27-2007, 10:22 PM	#16 (permalink)
jballer187 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: burlington, ontario Posts: 1,117 Jonny iTrader: 3 / 100%	dude.....lol....maybe youre just attracted to the wrong type of girls. Try someone different, but also remember these girls you talk about are probably your age (17-18?) most girls that age are looking for someone with some sort of status. Change it up a bit.

05-27-2007, 10:41 PM	#17 (permalink)
Driving91LX Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Temple, TX Age: 39 Posts: 968 iTrader: 0 / 0%	Highschool is, has been, and always will be an awkward place for relationships. I didn't know what the hell to do back then because everything was new. If you're a nice guy then surely there's a nice girl for you there. Don't even think about long relationships and have fun. This next year will go by fast and you'll be off to college (hopefully). Good luck, buddy.

05-27-2007, 11:08 PM	#19 (permalink)
trickyazn Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: OC, Cali Posts: 4,212 iTrader: 7 / 100%	some guys just arnt ment to have girls. sorry your one of them. friends only ftl.

05-27-2007, 11:10 PM	#20 (permalink)
Silver8th Dragon Slayer Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: GA Posts: 6,722 Jason iTrader: 4 / 100%	Maybe because you have a bad attitude, a dirty mouth and you can't spell.