one of those days

[Kakashi]

Originally Posted by janaka

two words are "what if"

The day you stop asking yourself this, is the day you will be happy.

[The Shishpanik]

I'm gonna go on a limb and ask, are you sexually frustrated? Because often times my friends with relationships who have these same problems are not getting any. Not to sound like an immature college student (which I pretty much am :) ), but you said that your relationship is not "physical".

[MordeKyle]

here is my suggestion...

figure out if you love this girl, TRUELY love her. if you do, you will know what to do. sometimes we all go through this sort of thing in our relationships where everything is so routine and such. but you have to remember all the good times.

what i like to do is to go out on date that alli and i went out on in the beginning. do the same date. i actually feel nervous like i did the first time. and it brings back alot of good memories and kind of renews that newness of relationships.

give it a shot, might just help.

[MordeKyle]

Originally Posted by Kakashi

The day you stop asking yourself this, is the day you will be happy.

amen +rep added

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

here is my suggestion...

figure out if you love this girl, TRUELY love her. if you do, you will know what to do. sometimes we all go through this sort of thing in our relationships where everything is so routine and such. but you have to remember all the good times.

what i like to do is to go out on date that alli and i went out on in the beginning. do the same date. i actually feel nervous like i did the first time. and it brings back alot of good memories and kind of renews that newness of relationships.

give it a shot, might just help.

I might try that myself Kyle...ooh..and it's good too, cause my wife slept with me on the first date! Woo Hoo...somebody's gonna get some

[MordeKyle]

Originally Posted by FG-Habanero-NavI

I might try that myself Kyle...ooh..and it's good too, cause my wife slept with me on the first date! Woo Hoo...somebody's gonna get some

hahahahaha.

believe it or not my girl actually rushed me into the sack. she was my first(and only for that matter) and i didnt take it lightly, i wanted to be sure, because it was important to me. im not like most guys, and im not ***. lol

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

hahahahaha.

believe it or not my girl actually rushed me into the sack. she was my first(and only for that matter) and i didnt take it lightly, i wanted to be sure, because it was important to me. im not like most guys, and im not ***. lol

Sure you're not

[MordeKyle]

Originally Posted by FG-Habanero-NavI

Sure you're not

there is no middle finger smiley, has anyone ever noticed that? lol

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

there is no middle finger smiley, has anyone ever noticed that? lol

LOL..calm down Rue-Paul.. woo woo woo...Pulllll Ovvvaaaahhhhhhh

/joking

[MordeKyle]

Originally Posted by FG-Habanero-NavI

LOL..calm down Rue-Paul.. woo woo woo...Pulllll Ovvvaaaahhhhhhh

/joking

haha wanna fight?

ill let you have the first hit......

then youll find your ass in the back of my patrol car

just playin fest

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

haha wanna fight?

ill let you have the first hit......

then youll find your ass in the back of my patrol car

just playin fest

no thanks, quite an uncomfortable ride..been there done that.. LOL..

But for real though, what's up with the plastic bench seat in the back of cop cars? Is that so people don't try to stuff things in between the seats?

Not trying to threadjack here :)

[J-Ro]

Holy crap. There are so many smart people here, I'm not kidding. I love 8thcivic more and more every day. Janaka, you should listen to each and every person in this thread.
That being said, when you said you love her, are you sure? I mean REALLY sure? I don't want to sound condescending or anything, but that is quite possibly the biggest decision of your life. It has been said that 90% of your happiness (or your misery) is decided by the person you choose to marry.
You need to look deep inside yourself and answer the question above. If you answer no, then you owe it to yourself and you owe it to her to be honest with her and tell her the truth, however painful that might be. If you answer yes, then love her more than you love life itself until the day you die, and DO NOT bring it up with her EVER, as this will cause her to doubt you--live your life and love her.

Good luck... this will be a difficult and life-altering decision.

[MordeKyle]

Originally Posted by FG-Habanero-NavI

no thanks, quite an uncomfortable ride..been there done that.. LOL..

But for real though, what's up with the plastic bench seat in the back of cop cars? Is that so people don't try to stuff things in between the seats?

Not trying to threadjack here :)

vomit, poop, pee, blood..... need i go on?

and yes, anything they drop (drugs weapon ect) will remain in view.

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

vomit, poop, pee, blood..... need i go on?

and yes, anything they drop (drugs weapon ect) will remain in view.

Ahh, yes, DUH, forgot about the easy to clean factor You guys don't have to clean your own cruisers out do you?

[MordeKyle]

yes we do

[FG-Habanero-NavI]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

yes we do

Ewww..I just gained more respect for your job.. LOL..So did u report to the scene of that Baseball player that died the other morning?

[The Shishpanik]

Originally Posted by MordeKyle

yes we do

What does that entail? Hosing it down?

[MordeKyle]

wet/dry vac, a bottle of industrial strength disinfectant, and a couple rags. and rubber and a mask for me, cuz i gag alot at the smell.

no i didnt go to that. i heard the call come out, was in another department, but no need for me to go. we didnt know who it was at the time anyways

[MordeKyle]

double post