8thcivic Soap: Sad and depressing day for me

[Blue Fox]

I work in an area where most of the woman are like snobs. Well, they only like guys who are well off and if you don't have a newer model car that'll look down at you. Melanie is one person whom made me buy the Civic. Now, I'm depressed as heck that she has a boyfriend. I think the reason why she wasn't impressed about me and she was bragging about her boyfriend for the very first time is because I told her I live with my parents in the suburbs - she didn't sound impressed at all.

[CaliGuy]

Originally Posted by atruhondagrl

My dear dear friend, you just need to look in a different place. Although, we say the same thing about you guys. But then again, maybe you just have enough personal integrity that when a girl tells you that she has a significant/insignificant other you actually don't persue further. If that is the case then good on you and/or I'm sorry.

Look where!!!??? Where I ask!!!! Actually I'm currently working on 2 women at work with b/f's (no not so they will cheat, but they both have issues with the b/f---"when your man don't treat you like he used ta I kick in like a turbo boosta" )

It kinda sucks getting older...less socialization goes on...The only place I know of to meet women is at work (f the bar!)

[J-Ro]

Originally Posted by atruhondagrl

First off, you should have bought the car for you not to impress some girl. She should want to be with you not your car. If that's the case, she's a shallow person and will not be worth your time. None the less, if you do things only to impress others, then you yourself will never be happy.

More wise words!

And Bluefox... I did that too...along with countless other guys. It's hard to accept right now, but the right one will come along, probably when you least expect it. It happened to me... and btw, she would still love me even if I was driving a ****box...that's important!

[CaliGuy]

Originally Posted by J-Ro

More wise words!

And Bluefox... I did that too...along with countless other guys. It's hard to accept right now, but the right one will come along, probably when you least expect it. It happened to me... and btw, she would still love me even if I was driving a ****box...that's important!

Sorry, I don't buy that. I'm 29 and still nothing (decent/good looking (or so I'm told), good job, degree, etc.).............ugggggggggggg...oh well, being single is cool too I suppose

[atruhondagrl]

Originally Posted by CaliGuy

Look where!!!??? Where I ask!!!! Actually I'm currently working on 2 women at work with b/f's (no not so they will cheat, but they both have issues with the b/f---"when your man don't treat you like he used ta I kick in like a turbo boosta" )

It kinda sucks getting older...less socialization goes on...The only place I know of to meet women is at work (f the bar!)

Move out east. Okay, women of the world don't hate me for this. I hope I'm not giving away a secret here:

So you say they have issues with the b/f huh? Dude! That is your cue. Time to be a supportive friend. That is how you ease your way into what seems like a sticky situation.

Chicks are always gonna have somebody. Boyfriend hopping is a way to avoid being labeled a "ho".

As far as work goes, most women meet their mates at work. It's sort of safer that way. At least then you know something about the dude so you already kind of have a heads up as to whether or not he's a total freak or not. Hell, I met my husband at work.

[OMGWTFBBQIMDEREK]

Wow.

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Ok.. now on a serious note.. one that is as serious as this topic.. First, you chose the Civic for all the wrong reasons.. because if you think about it.. if it didn't work out between you and her.. you'd be stuck with a car you didn't purchase because it was fun to drive.. you bought it to impress her.. so that's the first mistake.. Second, she's pretty shallow if she's into guys with nice cars.. if she really likes you.. she'd like you whether you drove a Civic or a Pinto.. Third, it's better to regret something you did than to regret not doing something.. this way.. there are no "what ifs" or "I wonder what would happen if i did this.." you'd know the end of the story and be done with it.. if she said no.. then its a no.. end of story.. you can move on knowing you tried and it didn't work out.. But yeah.. there are more girls out there.. trust me.. keep your head up and happy fishing. That is all.

Edit: I just realized I'm a slowass when it comes to typing up replies.. so basically all I just said has been mentioned before.. damn and yeah.. to Caliguy.. atruhondagrl's right.. when girls have problems with their bfs.. you should be the "best friend that has always been there".. yeah in movies.. especially those chick flicks.. the girl goes for the rebel or the "bad boy".. but in the end.. the nice guy always gets the girl

[Si_Chick]

I don't believe this ****** thread. How old are you?!?! Seriously, you bought a car to get a girl? This was bound to fail from the beginning. It sounds like, the way you put it, that she asked what your after work plans were and such, that she was setting it up for you to ask her out. You missed that boat.
Now, she just started dating this guy, the world is not ****** over for crying out loud! It may not work out. And I'm not condoning going after taken people, but I think in this case, you sound really young, so maybe if you ask her out she may decide to take you up on that offer and you may hit it off and the other guy falls outta the picture.

And seriously, not all of the seemingly *perfect* girls are taken, handicapped, or psycho!!! I'm not saying that a lot of girls don't have issues, because yes they do, but not all of them. This is one stereotype I can't stand!
/end my rant!

So, basically what I'm saying is, grow a pair and ask her out anyways. If she says no thanks, move on. And if she works at this place you claim all the women are snobs, then how do you know she's not just like them.

(Disclaimer: it is possible, but VERY rare, that she may be lying about the boyfriend to see your reaction. See comments about girls with issues. If this is the case, you probably don't want to date her anyways)

[Chance]

This depresses me, and I'm only 17.. =[

[atruhondagrl]

Originally Posted by Si_Chick

I don't believe this ****** thread. How old are you?!?! Seriously, you bought a car to get a girl? This was bound to fail from the beginning. It sounds like, the way you put it, that she asked what your after work plans were and such, that she was setting it up for you to ask her out. You missed that boat.
Now, she just started dating this guy, the world is not ****** over for crying out loud! It may not work out. And I'm not condoning going after taken people, but I think in this case, you sound really young, so maybe if you ask her out she may decide to take you up on that offer and you may hit it off and the other guy falls outta the picture.

And seriously, not all of the seemingly *perfect* girls are taken, handicapped, or psycho!!! I'm not saying that a lot of girls don't have issues, because yes they do, but not all of them. This is one stereotype I can't stand!
/end my rant!

So, basically what I'm saying is, grow a pair and ask her out anyways. If she says no thanks, move on. And if she works at this place you claim all the women are snobs, then how do you know she's not just like them.

(Disclaimer: it is possible, but VERY rare, that she may be lying about the boyfriend to see your reaction. See comments about girls with issues. If this is the case, you probably don't want to date her anyways)

Okay. If Si_chick ever runs for public office, I'm moving to where ever she is and registering to vote.

[Special Ringpop]

The car will pay off in more ways than a girl ever can.

Of course, I am biased...

[atruhondagrl]

Originally Posted by Special Ringpop

The car will pay off in more ways than a girl ever can.

Of course, I am biased...

Dang it.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Special Ringpop again.

[Si 07]

Originally Posted by Special Ringpop

The car will pay off in more ways than a girl ever can.

Of course, I am biased...

i dont think the car would like being rammed from the rear!

jk! ^_^

[Si_Chick]

Originally Posted by atruhondagrl

Move out east. Okay, women of the world don't hate me for this. I hope I'm not giving away a secret here:

So you say they have issues with the b/f huh? Dude! That is your cue. Time to be a supportive friend. That is how you ease your way into what seems like a sticky situation.

Chicks are always gonna have somebody. Boyfriend hopping is a way to avoid being labeled a "ho".

As far as work goes, most women meet their mates at work. It's sort of safer that way. At least then you know something about the dude so you already kind of have a heads up as to whether or not he's a total freak or not. Hell, I met my husband at work.

1. That really shouldn't be a secret, I think it's fairly obvious
2. Or you could just stay single, not waste your time "hopping" and not be a ho

Is that a nice way of saying I'm really harsh (sometimes)?

[disboiflaco]

dude...dont worry....there are alot more girls out there...and if there isnt for some reason...your civic can keep you company!

[J-Ro]

Originally Posted by CaliGuy

Sorry, I don't buy that. I'm 29 and still nothing (decent/good looking (or so I'm told), good job, degree, etc.).............ugggggggggggg...oh well, being single is cool too I suppose

Trust me, up until almost a year ago I would have said the same thing. I had a few meaningful relationships, but nothing that would have lasted, and I'm not that much younger than you... You don't seem like a weirdo to me, so it's just a matter of time. Unless you're holed up in a dark room all day with 27 cats
But yeah, being single has its advantages too... mods have taken a nose-dive since my gf and I started dating

[CaliGuy]

Originally Posted by atruhondagrl

Move out east. Okay, women of the world don't hate me for this. I hope I'm not giving away a secret here:

So you say they have issues with the b/f huh? Dude! That is your cue. Time to be a supportive friend. That is how you ease your way into what seems like a sticky situation.

Chicks are always gonna have somebody. Boyfriend hopping is a way to avoid being labeled a "ho".

As far as work goes, most women meet their mates at work. It's sort of safer that way. At least then you know something about the dude so you already kind of have a heads up as to whether or not he's a total freak or not. Hell, I met my husband at work.

I've been seriously considering that for some time for multiple reasons...

I know all this! What do you think I'm doing???? In fact, one of these two women is coming to my place for drinks on Friday In fact, this one already said she would bang me in a heartbeat if she didn't have a b/f...

As for the other one (the one I'm more interested in): I'm gonna ask her over to my crib to check out a flick on Saturday (she's a film buff like me)...we shall see

Being that I've never been in a serious relationship I actually know a lot about women (not bragging)...

[Kurt]

This is the dumbest thread I have ever seen on the internet.

Have you ever talked to a girl?

[honda06si]

Originally Posted by CaliGuy

Being that I've never been in a serious relationship I actually know a lot about women (not bragging)...

what?!?!?!? your 29 and never been in a serious relationship? no offense

[Si_Chick]

Originally Posted by honda06si

what?!?!?!? your 29 and never been in a serious relationship? no offense

^ How old are you?
"Serious relationships" are over-rated No point in having them if the person ain't worth it

[CaliGuy]

Originally Posted by honda06si

what?!?!?!? your 29 and never been in a serious relationship? no offense

Nope. Longest I've been with a girl was 3 months when I was 18...

That's not to say I don't have a significant # of notches on the old belt though...

I'm very picky when it comes to women...very picky! Ugggg...IDK...maybe I just don't have a good retort for this?