Personal Advice Needed

[xxhotkuti3boixx]

I've been with my girl for ova a year now. First everything seems so great(not many arguments or issues) as times go, lately we have been in much arguments and dissagreement. She doesn't seem to understand me that much like I thought she does about how I feel and think. I lover her and I know she loves me too, but things wouldn't work well out between us. She had a bad habit of always late, cannot control under anger, and she wouldn't consider my words. I have complained about them and I know just give her time and all that. But it had been couple months now she couldn't make it better so I won't complain about them. I am college and having to work with much bad lucks and issues arrive upon me. One of many problem is my si after a week I bought it a coolant leak almost got an over heat, then couple months later an oil leak. I feel really exhausted with everything else already. I couldn't get myself under control to be calm and see nothing happens. We just had an arguments and I suggest we should consider about our relationship. Do you think I did it right? and whar might I consider for both of us as working out or to end it? Thankx all in advance.

[CHRIS]

Originally Posted by xxhotkuti3boixx

I've been with my girl for ova a year now. First everything seems so great(not many arguments or issues) as times go, lately we have been in much arguments and dissagreement. She doesn't seem to understand me that much like I thought she does about how I feel and think. I lover her and I know she loves me too, but things wouldn't work well out between us. She had a bad habit of always late, cannot control under anger, and she wouldn't consider my words. I have complained about them and I know just give her time and all that. But it had been couple months now she couldn't make it better so I won't complain about them. I am college and having to work with much bad lucks and issues arrive upon me. One of many problem is my si after a week I bought it a coolant leak almost got an over heat, then couple months later an oil leak. I feel really exhausted with everything else already. I couldn't get myself under control to be calm and see nothing happens. We just had an arguments and I suggest we should consider about our relationship. Do you think I did it right? and whar might I consider for both of us as working out or to end it? Thankx all in advance.

The fact that you are letting coolant leaks in your SI make you feel overwhelmed enough not to contribute 100% into a relationship is where you need to start. This should not affect a relationship.

Although,

If you feel like your relationship is interfering with college, then you should say " " and move on.

[GeezerSi]

Decide whether your relationship can be fixed or is worth it.

[darna]

...or both of u could start fixing the personal problems first b4 fixing the relationship problem.

[dannn]

Originally Posted by CHRIS

If you feel like your relationship is interfering with college, then you should say " " and move on.

amen bro. not worth messing up your future for something like that.