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Old 12-20-2009, 03:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Kind of need some help 8th. Things have been good for a while been doing good in school and everything, things just started to finally work for me. Until this recently, I didn't do as good as I wanted. It's not that the work was too hard or anything but I just can't seem to focus on anything and I am losing motivation to do anything...Even cars I mean I still love my car, but I am no where near as into it as I was before. Cars seem to make me miserable because I am pissed at myself that I'm not into it like before lol. Same thing with MMA, I don't have that drive anymore...and this is with everything. I'm steadily losing weight and sleeping A LOT, even when not tired. So I realize how important school is and everything and do want to do well again...So I was thinking of going to the doctor and trying to get on some type of meds. I hear certain kind can make me concentrate, not freak out, and possibly relax? Adoral? What do you guys think? Also any meds you would recomend? And any side effects?
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You seem depressed dawg

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Old 12-20-2009, 03:22 AM   #3 (permalink)
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The only bad thing i heard about adderall was that once you get distracted, you lose concentration on your studies, and start concentrating on your distractions lol. try to go all natural though cuz buying prescription meds through drug dealers is a felony -_-
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yea I guess you could say that

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The only bad thing i heard about adderall was that once you get distracted, you lose concentration on your studies, and start concentrating on your distractions lol. try to go all natural though cuz buying prescription meds through drug dealers is a felony -_-
I wouldn't go through a drug dealer I don't need issues like that...Basically I was going to go to a doctor to see what he/she would say...But I don't trust everything they say so I wanted to get some more research in
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strip club is the best medicine for these type of situations
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Old 12-20-2009, 03:31 AM   #6 (permalink)
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meds = weakness.... any issues you have you can fix yourself...... trust me.... getting on a med as the same as relying on drugs or alcohal... work it out on your own...... you can do it ...
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Old 12-20-2009, 03:37 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Didn't even read this..All I see is your avatar lol

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meds = weakness.... any issues you have you can fix yourself...... trust me.... getting on a med as the same as relying on drugs or alcohal... work it out on your own...... you can do it ...
I feel the same way...This has been on and off for a a few years though, never used anything ever but now I'm starting to wonder...I have no idea
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Old 12-20-2009, 05:19 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Old 12-20-2009, 06:12 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I'm going to go there......we all get upset sometimes......it is a rut you just have to overcome.


I'm not a fan of mental meds (unless the person is batshit crazy.....then by all means do anything!) because I feel like they can allow you to avoid problems instead of just face them.
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Old 12-20-2009, 07:00 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I feel the exact same way as you. I know how important school and studying is but for some reason im not very motivated. The only sort of motivation or interest that I have left is cars. I'm still unsure how I am going to overcome this...
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:28 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Do NOT get on pills! Do not ever do that man. You just gotta find what makes you happy man. Something is keeping you down. Pills are not going to help. You need to get around family and people that make you laugh and have a good time.
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:33 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Old 12-20-2009, 09:37 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Go get a **** job somewhere. A job where you work your ass off, on your feet for 12 hours at a time. Make sure you force yourself to work it for at least 6 months.

You will make $9/hour, and see others there who have been working there for years. They have nothing better to look forward to, and as a result, look like zombie robots.

Unless you take advantage of your apportunities now, and do whatever you can to make the most of your future, then this will be your only choice.

Keep thinking of this everytime you feel unmotivated.
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I know a doctor can prescribe adderal, but as a second year college student, don't take it unless it's absolutely necessary.

I have friends that took adderrall just to study for finals and went to taking it every time they had an exam to every time they had to do any homework. Basically, it is very addicting drug and it may end up ruining your life.

I felt a bit depressed after finals (esp. after knowing I may fail a class, which I still don't know if I passed), but I put my mind on other things. Do you play video games? If so, go and get a new game. Go hang out with family and friends more. GL
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and layoff the caffeine
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Trust me, don't get on meds unless it is prescribed by a physician and you fully understand all of the side effects including dependency. I have dealt with depression for several years. I have taken many scripts that have helped in the short term. However, your body tends to build up a tolerance to these drugs and needs more of them over time to produce the same effect. The scripts that are addictive are very hard to give up and can have serious side effects. Research your family history for depression. Seek advice from a doctor. Keep your friends and family informed about your condition.

I would assume that you are young. The last thing you want to deal with in your life is an addiction problem. I have seen it ruin many lives. Depression is serious, but can be treated without medication. I wish for you the very best. Keep us updated on your progress. Remember, you are not alone!
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I'd say that when I'm in those situations, switching to a healthy diet and finding a good workout program helps A LOT. You need to force yourself to eat, especially in the morning. Do some good cardio at least 3 times a week and go to bed early and wake up early. Don't sleep in, and don't take naps.

But if you are feeling really depressed (thinking of suicide), you NEED to go see a Doctor. Sometimes these things are just biological and you may need to get medication or other help.
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Old 12-20-2009, 12:54 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I'm on the same boat bro..
yeah it blows doesnt it, let me know if you find anything that reverses this

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I'm going to go there......we all get upset sometimes......it is a rut you just have to overcome.


I'm not a fan of mental meds (unless the person is batshit crazy.....then by all means do anything!) because I feel like they can allow you to avoid problems instead of just face them.
Same never been a fan of meds, i tell myself I will never do it...but this has been happening on and off for a few years so idk

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I feel the exact same way as you. I know how important school and studying is but for some reason im not very motivated. The only sort of motivation or interest that I have left is cars. I'm still unsure how I am going to overcome this...
Yeah I kind of have that left but idk if i have that now everything seems like blehhh to me now, id rather just sleep

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Do NOT get on pills! Do not ever do that man. You just gotta find what makes you happy man. Something is keeping you down. Pills are not going to help. You need to get around family and people that make you laugh and have a good time.
yea im not sure if its something keeping me down, it may be a combo of things, but idk...a few ppl also say dont take pills and i agree but...that kind of leaves me with nothing then lol

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I use to bowl hardcore, i was ok i had a 160ish average...then i worked at a bowling alley and never again lol

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Go get a **** job somewhere. A job where you work your ass off, on your feet for 12 hours at a time. Make sure you force yourself to work it for at least 6 months.

You will make $9/hour, and see others there who have been working there for years. They have nothing better to look forward to, and as a result, look like zombie robots.

Unless you take advantage of your apportunities now, and do whatever you can to make the most of your future, then this will be your only choice.

Keep thinking of this everytime you feel unmotivated.
Damn this made me feel a lot worse lol...Funny thing is i do have a job like that(pizza place) lol....And beleive me I want to better myself and I know the importance of school and stuff now...which is why im so bent out of shape as to why im like this and i wanna fix it...I am not just unmotivated in school, its everything. I have to make myself get up in mornings even on my days off...I am just unmotivated on life and looking for my drive back

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I know a doctor can prescribe adderal, but as a second year college student, don't take it unless it's absolutely necessary.

I have friends that took adderrall just to study for finals and went to taking it every time they had an exam to every time they had to do any homework. Basically, it is very addicting drug and it may end up ruining your life.

I felt a bit depressed after finals (esp. after knowing I may fail a class, which I still don't know if I passed), but I put my mind on other things. Do you play video games? If so, go and get a new game. Go hang out with family and friends more. GL
Yeah I hear a lot of kids taking that and other drugs for exams...I was never a person to drink or do any drugs, i would feel weird taking it. I would only do this as a LAST resort. I just bought forza 3 haha

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yea i cut down on monsters still drink a lot of coke though. It doesnt give me a rush anymore but when i dont have it i feel weird. lol

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Trust me, don't get on meds unless it is prescribed by a physician and you fully understand all of the side effects including dependency. I have dealt with depression for several years. I have taken many scripts that have helped in the short term. However, your body tends to build up a tolerance to these drugs and needs more of them over time to produce the same effect. The scripts that are addictive are very hard to give up and can have serious side effects. Research your family history for depression. Seek advice from a doctor. Keep your friends and family informed about your condition.

I would assume that you are young. The last thing you want to deal with in your life is an addiction problem. I have seen it ruin many lives. Depression is serious, but can be treated without medication. I wish for you the very best. Keep us updated on your progress. Remember, you are not alone!
Thats the thing every damn drug has to have a side effect. I would only use it if it started to help me get better, then i could stop and continue. I dont wanna only feel good when i am on it....Last thing i want is dependence on anything

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I'd say that when I'm in those situations, switching to a healthy diet and finding a good workout program helps A LOT. You need to force yourself to eat, especially in the morning. Do some good cardio at least 3 times a week and go to bed early and wake up early. Don't sleep in, and don't take naps.

But if you are feeling really depressed (thinking of suicide), you NEED to go see a Doctor. Sometimes these things are just biological and you may need to get medication or other help.
I was like this a few months ago so I took up MMA...Its great i still do it, but my diet fails. I work at a pizza place so i eat that a lot...drink a lot of caffine and my sleep schedule is the most effed up thing evef. I think a bout suicide sometimes, I would never actually do it, im really religous so i cant but i do think it would be easier that way sometimes
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Old 12-20-2009, 01:01 PM   #20 (permalink)
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as my friend would ssay "ull be fine after u get some arse"
lol but seriously i agree...sometimes you just get so wound up that its needed lol
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