Interacial Relationships.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 11:59 AM

What's all the fuss about different races dating?
Who's in one?
Any good or bad experiences?
Do you think young people these days are just too carefree about who they date?

bhoy · 08-16-2006, 12:07 PM

i was in a few back in the day. the only draw back i experienced is adjusting to each others cultural belief's and ways but other than that it could definitely be a learning experience.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:08 PM

I've been in a few and I actually learned a lot but man, there was a lot of disagreements in some cases.

I'm currently in one right now. =) Been with him for two years and we learned A LOT about each other and our cultures but we see things and handle situations very differently.

Civic4u · 08-16-2006, 12:11 PM

I date a Polish chick.

She was fine and sweet at the beginning. She act very strange later. Got into some extreme religious group. That when we broke-up :rolleyes:

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Civic4u

I date a Polish chick.

She was fine and sweet at the beginning. She act very strange later. Got into some extreme religious group. That when we broke-up :rolleyes:

WTF, are you serious? LOL.

Civic4u · 08-16-2006, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by _cargirl

WTF, are you serious? LOL.

Yeeep! I can't handle religious lecture 24 hour per day and NO more sex !

**CameronJr9** · 08-16-2006, 12:15 PM

I dated a Japanese girl once. She was more "American" than me probably. I think in the next 100 years or so, the whole world will become a cross-cultural mixed-race. I actually look forward to it. Much less discrimination and hatred.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Civic4u

Yeeep! I can't handle religious lecture 24 hour per day and NO more sex !

Dude, that is super whack! LOL!

For those who was in a interacial relationship? What was your race and his/her race?

Did ANYONE ever give you problems or opinions about it?

Civic4u · 08-16-2006, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by _cargirl

Dude, that is super whack! LOL!

For those who was in a interacial relationship? What was your race and his/her race?

Did ANYONE ever give you problems or opinions about it?

mix white/asian-me

Polish-her

***k20z3Vo*** · 08-16-2006, 12:21 PM

I think those relationships are spicy. You'll never know what's going to happen or what the other person will do, based on their cultural essence. I love'em. I've dated many Hispanics; Guatamalan, Mexican, El Salvadorian, uhhh, many Asians; Chinese, Korean, Philippine, Laotion, Khmer, and also, African American, and Caucasian. And with that, I've dated a couple of Interacial babies too!!! Keke.

Not all at once though.

I love'em all. Each and everyone is different. Different beliefs. Different religion. Different lifestyle. Different standards.

And as of right now, I've been with my Vietnamese darling for 4 years now.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by CameronJr9

I dated a Japanese girl once. She was more "American" than me probably. I think in the next 100 years or so, the whole world will become a cross-cultural mixed-race. I actually look forward to it. Much less discrimination and hatred.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by k20z3Vo

I think those relationships are spicy. You'll never know what's going to happen or what the other person will do, based on their cultural essence. I love'em. I've dated many Hispanics; Guatamalan, Mexican, El Salvadorian, uhhh, many Asians; Chinese, Korean, Philippine, Laotion, Khmer, and also, African American, and Caucasian. And with that, I've dated a couple of Interacial babies too!!! Keke.

Not all at once though.

I love'em all. Each and everyone is different. Different beliefs. Different religion. Different lifestyle. Different standards.

And as of right now, I've been with my Vietnamese darling for 4 years now.

Very nice.

I'm asian (Laos, Thai and Chinese) and my boyfriend is hispanic and white. I love the experience I've had with him.

We just have different opinions on how we handle situations or some cases.

**firmhonda** · 08-16-2006, 12:24 PM

I've been in a few relationships with some senoritas.

The only time I heard anything about it was when I lost my virginity to one of them.. I don't know why it mattered but I had one friend that was just all out pissed. I would like to have another interracial relationship... white girls f*** with your head too much.

Civic4u · 08-16-2006, 12:24 PM

Beside my exgirlfriend, I'm dating a Vietnamese right now. So far it seem all ok and fine

She talking about marriage, it make me nervous

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by firmhonda

I've been in a few relationships with some senoritas.

The only time I heard anything about it was when I lost my virginity to one of them.. I don't know why it mattered but I had one friend that was just all out pissed. I would like to have another interracial relationship... white girls f*** with your head too much.

Haha. My boyfriend said he won't ever date hispanic chicks ... the ones he dated ended up turning into big-time whores.

No offense to any hispanic women, it was just those two, lol.

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Civic4u

Beside my exgirlfriend, I'm dating a Vietnamese right now. So far it seem all ok and fine

Right on man! :) GG for you!

I always get the sterotypical from other people that asians are the most expensive and wanted all name-brand shit. HAHAHAHA, some of them but not all.

Pretty much, GIRLS are expensive! =P

NightKidsGTR · 08-16-2006, 12:28 PM

I'm in one right now. I'm Vietnamese, my girl is Caucasian (1/4 Polish, 1/4 Italian, 1/4 English, 1/4 German). We've been together for almost a year and a half.

It only gets slightly weird now and then only because she's starting to realize that, as the oldest son in a Viet family, I have a lot of responsibilities. So that pretty much gets in the way of a few things. Other than that, everything is good. She's learning more about Viet culture and such more than I am about "American" culture, mainly because I was born here and can't speak Vietnamese that much (part of the reason why I can't get with Asian girls).

When we first started going out, we used to get a lot of looks from people. When you think of an Asian being with a Caucasian, you think AF (Asian Female) and WM (White Male), not the other way around, so it through people off a bit. I used to notice it a lot, she never really did. There were a few times she noticed, though; that's when I know it was bad, like someone was super staring at us. But it's all good. Eff the haters.

FujiBlueSi · 08-16-2006, 12:30 PM

I'm hispanic (Puerto Rican) and my wife is white (German, Italian, Polish). Haven't had any problems with her family. She hasn't had any problems with mine.
In the past I haven't really dated many hispanic girls. They scare me. LOL, I live in NYC and the New Yorican girls here stab you when they get mad at you. I'd rather be yelled at. LOL

_cargirl · 08-16-2006, 12:32 PM

Yeah, some asian people has given me crap because they think its better for the old-fashion way. Asian should stick with asians. Well apparently, they don't know. I come from a big family members of interacial relationships.

I have white, black and hispanic family members. =)

Race doesn't exist in our relationship which is why I love it because we are both the same on the inside.

FujiBlueSi · 08-16-2006, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by _cargirl

I love it because we are both the same on the inside.

08-16-2006, 11:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
_cargirl Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Straight up MIA, TX. Age: 23 Posts: 703 iTrader: 0 / 0%	Interacial Relationships. What's all the fuss about different races dating? Who's in one? Any good or bad experiences? Do you think young people these days are just too carefree about who they date?

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CameronJr9 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisville, KY Age: 28 Posts: 26,334 Back and Forth Forever iTrader: 6 / 100%	I dated a Japanese girl once. She was more "American" than me probably. I think in the next 100 years or so, the whole world will become a cross-cultural mixed-race. I actually look forward to it. Much less discrimination and hatred. __________________

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*k20z3Vo* thinkin about an RX-8?!?! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 35000FT ATL, GA Posts: 3,188 iTrader: 0 / 0%	I think those relationships are spicy. You'll never know what's going to happen or what the other person will do, based on their cultural essence. I love'em. I've dated many Hispanics; Guatamalan, Mexican, El Salvadorian, uhhh, many Asians; Chinese, Korean, Philippine, Laotion, Khmer, and also, African American, and Caucasian. And with that, I've dated a couple of Interacial babies too!!! Keke. Not all at once though. I love'em all. Each and everyone is different. Different beliefs. Different religion. Different lifestyle. Different standards. And as of right now, I've been with my Vietnamese darling for 4 years now. __________________ R.I.P. 06' Civic SI 07/16/07 http://www.8thcivic.com/forums/showt...b135cebbf8462& Slammed EG6....

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08-16-2006, 12:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
bhoy Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: NJ Age: 41 Posts: 774 Marv iTrader: 8 / 100%	i was in a few back in the day. the only draw back i experienced is adjusting to each others cultural belief's and ways but other than that it could definitely be a learning experience.

08-16-2006, 12:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
_cargirl Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Straight up MIA, TX. Age: 23 Posts: 703 iTrader: 0 / 0%	I've been in a few and I actually learned a lot but man, there was a lot of disagreements in some cases. I'm currently in one right now. =) Been with him for two years and we learned A LOT about each other and our cultures but we see things and handle situations very differently.

08-16-2006, 12:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
Civic4u Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Humble, TX Posts: 6,667 iTrader: 7 / 100%	I date a Polish chick. She was fine and sweet at the beginning. She act very strange later. Got into some extreme religious group. That when we broke-up :rolleyes:

08-16-2006, 12:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
Civic4u Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Humble, TX Posts: 6,667 iTrader: 7 / 100%	Beside my exgirlfriend, I'm dating a Vietnamese right now. So far it seem all ok and fine She talking about marriage, it make me nervous

08-16-2006, 12:28 PM	#17 (permalink)
NightKidsGTR Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: San Jose, CA Age: 23 Posts: 817 San Jose's First Modified R18 iTrader: 0 / 0%	I'm in one right now. I'm Vietnamese, my girl is Caucasian (1/4 Polish, 1/4 Italian, 1/4 English, 1/4 German). We've been together for almost a year and a half. It only gets slightly weird now and then only because she's starting to realize that, as the oldest son in a Viet family, I have a lot of responsibilities. So that pretty much gets in the way of a few things. Other than that, everything is good. She's learning more about Viet culture and such more than I am about "American" culture, mainly because I was born here and can't speak Vietnamese that much (part of the reason why I can't get with Asian girls). When we first started going out, we used to get a lot of looks from people. When you think of an Asian being with a Caucasian, you think AF (Asian Female) and WM (White Male), not the other way around, so it through people off a bit. I used to notice it a lot, she never really did. There were a few times she noticed, though; that's when I know it was bad, like someone was super staring at us. But it's all good. Eff the haters.

08-16-2006, 12:30 PM	#18 (permalink)
FujiBlueSi Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Queens, NY Age: 30 Posts: 2,862 Tim iTrader: 2 / 100%	I'm hispanic (Puerto Rican) and my wife is white (German, Italian, Polish). Haven't had any problems with her family. She hasn't had any problems with mine. In the past I haven't really dated many hispanic girls. They scare me. LOL, I live in NYC and the New Yorican girls here stab you when they get mad at you. I'd rather be yelled at. LOL

08-16-2006, 12:32 PM	#19 (permalink)
_cargirl Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Straight up MIA, TX. Age: 23 Posts: 703 iTrader: 0 / 0%	Yeah, some asian people has given me crap because they think its better for the old-fashion way. Asian should stick with asians. Well apparently, they don't know. I come from a big family members of interacial relationships. I have white, black and hispanic family members. =) Race doesn't exist in our relationship which is why I love it because we are both the same on the inside.