pissed off once again...

[fhound258]

yeah so this is another tread about me ranting about how much my life sucks. if u care to read, please do just don't give me ur .02 i just need some support cuz right now im pretty sad, and angry.

so my dad, he's pretty much a brick wall, anything u say or do won't change his mind or thinking and/or reasoning. my uncle tried this, of course over the years him trying to get to my dad has failed...well anyways

my uncle is a very manipulative person. and tried to manipulate my dad cuz...well he has money and if he has control over my dad, he has control over money and of course money is power.

well my dad, my uncle, i and a few cousins were supposed to roof our two houses and help fix up my uncle's other house. my uncle helping my dad made him get on his good side.

i left for 1 week to go camping, and while i was gone for that week. this pissed off my dad alot. then to get him even more pissed off at me he told my dad that i was smoking cigs since i was in 9th grade (a lie, i didn't smoke till about 6 months ago) and i smoke pot (i tired it but haven't touched it since) the reason for giving my dad this info is to once again get on his good side.

and he did this just to get "power"...or control over my dad, and screwed me over in the process. oh yeah and im not the frist person; when i say manipulative i really mean manipulative he got my cousin to buy a $500k house...and i know my cousin didn't want to really buy it either cuz he was asking me what i thought about it so obviously he had doubts about buying it.

and a close family friend got screwed over by my uncle as well. this family friend helped my uncle with alot of things, not small things like running to the store to buy shit, but pretty much with anything major. and he pretty much made him sound like a total ass hole that uses people to my dad...

today i confronted him about what he told my dad, as soon as he walked in he said " i didn't tell ur dad, he already knew u smoked" which was total bs cuz well my mom 3 of my cousins and both my sisters told me that he told my dad that i smoked.

then later that day i found out, not only did he tell my dad i smoked cigs but pot as well...then he just walked off with out remorse and acted like he did me a favor cuz now i can smoke...

this made me realize how ****** up my uncle really is, i mean why would u screw over ur own family member? and on top of that lie to them.

yeah i know i don't have it as bad as other people but for me this is prob the lowest thing anyone has ever done to me, and it hurts much more cuz it wasn't some random person but my own family member...i honestly don't think i can trust him. i mean im a really forgiving person, but my uncle passed that line of forgiveness.

any support would be nice, there was not one i could really ask or talk to for advice on what to do so i just kinda posted this tread.

[firmhonda]

Take your dad out to eat and run by a drug testing clinic on the way and get yourself tested.. When you pass your dad will feel like an ass, trust me. I had to do the same thing when my cousin got caught on acid and said I sold it to him =\

I hate spelling the word caught. stupid word.

[Jester FPS]

^ good advice, and it will help strengthen you and your dad's relationship.

[fhound258]

i think i will. because honestly my dad and i don't really get along with to begin with, and he herd from my friends dad that i got his son into drugs and blah blah blah and other stuff so it just sounds like i really do, do drugs. my dad has relaxed atlot since this happend but im still pissed at my uncle because not only did he tell my dad that i smoke cigs but extended it more saying i was smoke much longer than i acutall did and smoke weed and i don't. thx for the support

[vicSi]

well im sorry to brake it to you all but i do blaze it from time to time but, hey its a free country... as a matter of fact im in a pretty good one right now so i read the whole story and i actually saw it while i read... now, about the topic my mom is mexican there for so am i.. still my family is of about 9 brothers and sisters, not exactly an even number though all my uncles and aunts have their pairs and stuff so... okay to the point im through the same shit.... my aunt the one that has more money doesnt have any brothers or sisters according to her... my mom doesnt have anyone to team up with.. but thankfully we have money to support ourselfs... maybe your dad needs to be more independent.... maybe your dad has a problem about security fanancialy? im in a good one i dont know if i make since tommorow ima be regretting what i wrote.

[thinkinblue613]

The only thing to do is prove him wrong by not smoking up.. Even if it isn't true. Just prove you don't smoke... If he still doesn't take it then just leave it to be cuz you can't change someones judgement "forcefully", only at their own will ya know? So just chill and enjoy life man, try to keep things positive and stuff with your pops.

[Chase]

Originally Posted by fhound258

yeah so this is another tread about me ranting about how much my life sucks. if u care to read, please do just don't give me ur .02 i just need some support cuz right now im pretty sad, and angry.

so my dad, he's pretty much a brick wall, anything u say or do won't change his mind or thinking and/or reasoning. my uncle tried this, of course over the years him trying to get to my dad has failed...well anyways

my uncle is a very manipulative person. and tried to manipulate my dad cuz...well he has money and if he has control over my dad, he has control over money and of course money is power.

well my dad, my uncle, i and a few cousins were supposed to roof our two houses and help fix up my uncle's other house. my uncle helping my dad made him get on his good side.

i left for 1 week to go camping, and while i was gone for that week. this pissed off my dad alot. then to get him even more pissed off at me he told my dad that i was smoking cigs since i was in 9th grade (a lie, i didn't smoke till about 6 months ago) and i smoke pot (i tired it but haven't touched it since) the reason for giving my dad this info is to once again get on his good side.

and he did this just to get "power"...or control over my dad, and screwed me over in the process. oh yeah and im not the frist person; when i say manipulative i really mean manipulative he got my cousin to buy a $500k house...and i know my cousin didn't want to really buy it either cuz he was asking me what i thought about it so obviously he had doubts about buying it.

and a close family friend got screwed over by my uncle as well. this family friend helped my uncle with alot of things, not small things like running to the store to buy shit, but pretty much with anything major. and he pretty much made him sound like a total ass hole that uses people to my dad...

today i confronted him about what he told my dad, as soon as he walked in he said " i didn't tell ur dad, he already knew u smoked" which was total bs cuz well my mom 3 of my cousins and both my sisters told me that he told my dad that i smoked.

then later that day i found out, not only did he tell my dad i smoked cigs but pot as well...then he just walked off with out remorse and acted like he did me a favor cuz now i can smoke...

this made me realize how ****** up my uncle really is, i mean why would u screw over ur own family member? and on top of that lie to them.

yeah i know i don't have it as bad as other people but for me this is prob the lowest thing anyone has ever done to me, and it hurts much more cuz it wasn't some random person but my own family member...i honestly don't think i can trust him. i mean im a really forgiving person, but my uncle passed that line of forgiveness.

any support would be nice, there was not one i could really ask or talk to for advice on what to do so i just kinda posted this tread.

Whats done is DOne all you can do is suck it up and move on! Hey look at the bright side! At least noone tried to shoot at you today? And you didnt see any explosions or people coming back missin limbs! :wink:

[firmhonda]

Originally Posted by fhound258

i think i will. because honestly my dad and i don't really get along with to begin with....

Man, my dad and I didn't get along at all for a long time. I mean, I was actually homeless for a period of time cuz he kicked me out and no one would hire a 14 yr. old so I was screwed. But when it came down to it, I was the cause of 80% of the fighting (not saying that you are) and once I matured a little I realized that he saved my life by being such a dick. I was indefinately going down the wrong path and he threw me out on my ass in the cold to sleep on park benches so I couldn't stay on the path I was on.

I am forever in debt to his decision and I thank him every time I get the chance now.

Point being - just tough it out and don't burn the bridge. I would be willing to bet your dad's just like mine (a hard ass) and once everything settles - you'll thank him for everything that you hated him doing.