Hello guys, I seem to have the same problem as some of you have. It is unfortunate that we have to go through all these problems but I guess that's life. Anyway, I found this link though a google search and you may find it helpful. I have an appointment at my local honda dealer for them to look at my car. I seem to have just the grinding and the hard to shift into third but not the popping out, not yet at least. If you look at the honda link for the service bulletin, it'll bring the honda memo talking about the fixing of 3rd gear. I'm gonna print that bulletin and take it to the dealer when I get to take my car to them. If the dealer cannot replicate the problem, they'll have something to go by as their own bulletin. It may not help much but who knows, it may.
Honda issues TSB for third-gear issue, fix is free - Autoblog