I'm ignoring my maintenance-minder also. I got 160k out of my 98 civic doing oil changes every 3k miles with standard Quaker State (not even a “blend”) and cheap oil filters (170k out of the previous accord doing the same thing). I never had a single problem with the 98 civic engine in 9 years, and it still ran great when I traded it in.
I WILL concede that changing oil every 3k miles might be a bit aggressive these days, so now I'm changing every 5k on my 07 R18. My stupid-ass maintenance minder never gets below 30% when I bring it in. I can tell the service guys REALLY want to tell me to wait, but they don't. And I'm not into rotating my tires every 10k either. I want to squeeze every last millimeter of tread out of them, so I rotate every 6k.
I already have 12k on the car in only 6 months.
William
03 Pilot + 07 Civic