Will do, j. I'll probably mess around with it on saturday. I've got a date with my dad's volt meter.
I found this link for installing an auto day/night mirror that might help.
http://www.hondapartsdeals.com/honda...ght_mirror.pdf
there is a three pin connector shown on the page 2 (left side) of that install guide. Would that be the connector woohoo was talking about?